tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post2291990240510355851..comments2024-03-26T20:28:00.690+08:00Comments on Journey to Become Financially Independent: Should I Avoid Negative People?ChampDoghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15551303930099640011noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-19825599299905721872009-09-02T01:37:14.040+08:002009-09-02T01:37:14.040+08:00I have almost forgotten I have this post. I think ...I have almost forgotten I have this post. I think everyone of us has the negative energy. The only make the difference is how one can utilize this negative energy to become the useful energy instead.<br /><br />Put it this way, positive energy could harm too due to over optimistic. Don't you think so? It is a matter of fact how you use the energy to get something that you one. Negative energy is not necessary a bad thing, it could be a very good thing if we know how to make use of it.<br /><br />I believe a complete team, you need both of those people. You can't just fire all the negative guys and only keep those positive fella. This won't bring the team to the next level. That what I'm trying to say, being negative is sometimes not really a bad thing. It can be good as long as we know how to make use of it. Anyway, this is just my opinion. I could be wrong.ChampDoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15551303930099640011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-49518179383150537232009-08-31T23:34:52.040+08:002009-08-31T23:34:52.040+08:00If you're a leader then you would offer your n...If you're a leader then you would offer your negative followers a chance to change. If they choose to remain in their negative states then you simply fire them. Once they are no longer bringing their negativity into your surroundings you hire a positive person to replace them. <br /><br />Negative people infect others with their fear and self doubt. They kill innovation dead in it's tracks. They cost way too much to keep around.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01826233721692443351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-57756883565685377772008-01-10T14:59:00.000+08:002008-01-10T14:59:00.000+08:00@MichaelI agree. Sometimes over-positive can over-...@Michael<BR/>I agree. Sometimes over-positive can over-look things. We need negative people to compliment each to achieve the next-level result.<BR/><BR/>@seaykopitiam<BR/>Thanks for your comment and compliment. I’m great to hear that you can stay in positive in whatever situation and environment. Sometimes being negative is not totatly a bad thing. How to make use of your negative energy is another thing we all need to learn. <BR/><BR/>@Zing<BR/>Yes, we should help them instead of avoiding them. It also depends how good you’re in control of your behaviour. Sometimes negative people have a very powerful influence! In life, we don’t need to be always a leader in any situation. A good leader in fact is also a good follower.<BR/><BR/>Thanks. :) That little boy was me.ChampDoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15551303930099640011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-46378542980963726352008-01-08T20:31:00.000+08:002008-01-08T20:31:00.000+08:00There're too many negative people around us. So yo...There're too many negative people around us. So you're right, instead of avoiding them, we should mingle with and transform them. <BR/><BR/>Wow, I really sound like a leader huh? Not actually I just try not to be a mere follower.<BR/><BR/>Your little boy pic looks so cute lar!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-29980889719018932712008-01-06T21:46:00.000+08:002008-01-06T21:46:00.000+08:00Hi, Sorry that I did not see you comment earlier i...Hi, <BR/><BR/>Sorry that I did not see you comment earlier in my bulk moderating comment.<BR/><BR/>I just approved and posted.<BR/>In think one way or another, we are surrounded by negative people and useless people all days long, but the important thing is how we handle these people ?<BR/><BR/>I am a very positive person because I got to because I was born with a lot of congruential diseases so I need to stay positive for myself, my parents, my siblings and now my own family :).<BR/><BR/>I think what make me different from a lot of other negative people is that I am very focus and goal oriented. <BR/><BR/>I love your blog about become financially independent. Good on you. <BR/><BR/>I love people plan and think ahead.<BR/><BR/>Cheers<BR/>Jamy from Florida<BR/>(I am from East Malaysia, just came back from there).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-14140853053484184672008-01-06T10:35:00.000+08:002008-01-06T10:35:00.000+08:00from another perspective, "make use of the negativ...from another perspective, "make use of the negative people .... "<BR/><BR/>sometimes when ones is over-positive, he may overlook things. That's why quite a handful of 'positive' guys fail miserably. so when a negative encouter occurs, the 'real' positive guy will take what he needs from that incident, ie. highlight, issues, potential problems etc ... and say thank you to the negative dude ... that way, the negative guy feel appreciated and may become more positive in future while the positive guy get new piece of information that he can be more suceed in his path ...Mt.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11182268410762882679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-3664798803987820942008-01-06T00:23:00.000+08:002008-01-06T00:23:00.000+08:00You're right, no one is 100% positive. Of course n...You're right, no one is 100% positive. Of course no offense but I though my post is bias towards not to avoid negative people? :)ChampDoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15551303930099640011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-67185392530947387402008-01-05T23:20:00.000+08:002008-01-05T23:20:00.000+08:00Yeah I agreed everyone like positive thinking peop...Yeah I agreed everyone like positive thinking people. Not everyone is so perfect in this world. We are human and we will definately be negative sometimes. So we need to balance between the positive and negative. We cannot avoid them unless you can tell me that you are 100% positive. Right? Just sharing my opinion.. not offence ya.. Hehe.. :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-32394280392986352352008-01-05T21:12:00.000+08:002008-01-05T21:12:00.000+08:00Yes, whatever changes we want from our life it sho...Yes, whatever changes we want from our life it should be inside-out and not the other way round. Of course, sometimes when we are weak we need outside-in to encourage us or motivate us. However, we shouldn't forget that the bottom line is still inside-out.ChampDoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15551303930099640011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503628.post-15852148113260696262008-01-05T17:08:00.000+08:002008-01-05T17:08:00.000+08:00Or as Gandhi said, "Be the change you want to see ...Or as Gandhi said, "Be the change you want to see in the world [around you]."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com